If you are going to be spending the rest of your life being married to someone, then it’s only wise that you make moves to make it a very healthy Marriage that would be stronger than whatever storm. Marriage is beautiful, it puts you in the arms of your soul mate and produces a beautiful
If you are going to be spending the rest of your life being married to someone, then it’s only wise that you make moves to make it a very healthy Marriage that would be stronger than whatever storm. Marriage is beautiful, it puts you in the arms of your soul mate and produces a beautiful family, but in a world that isn’t perfect, things can easily go wrong.
There are ingredients to make everything better, whatever you need improvement on, you can always apply a couple healthy things to make things work. Here are the ingredients of a happy marriage and home
Every strong relationship and home is built on trust, it’s the chief ingredient of a healthy Marriage, no home can survive without trust because the other person will always deal with other people that are better, you just have to come to a place of trust in your partner when there is no reason to be in doubt. Don’t look for reasons either, know the person you are signing up to spend the rest of your life with enough to trust them.
There’s really no perfection where two people are involved, forgiveness stands as key if you are going to live happily ever after, people make mistakes, things go wrong, but you are in it together as a family, so make forgiveness a habit, do it out of love. You should definitely know when something has gone out of hand, but if it’s not life threatening and it can be resolved, work on it together.
A lot of Marriages have crumbled due to loss of respect, don’t get too comfortable that you forget the respect that is needed, respect your spouse’s choices, interests and everything in between, listen more than you try to reply.
You won’t always have things your way, neither will your spouse. Be open to comprise, always be ready to come to a compromise, a level that works for both of you even though it;s not exactly what you want.
This is key! How else would your partner know what you want if you don’t communicate, bottling up your hurts and complains won’t make them go away, let the other person know how you feel per time, that’s the best way to reach a solution and move on.
More than anything else, friendship will keep you together and strong, there’s nothing as healthy as being friends with your spouse and staying friends.
You have to understand and get used to the fact that some things take time, patience is priceless and a virtue, the worst marriages are those that expect everything to work out overnight or in an unreasonable short space of time
As Cliche as this may sound, “a family that prays together, stays together”, for the things you cannot see, the battles you cannot win, you definitely need a supreme hand and prayer is the only way to reach one.
In this day and age, this internet world where everybody knows something about everybody and people take pleasure in putting their personal information out there, you should be aware of the fact that your marriage can be ruined by people, keep it away from them. Don’t always be in a hurry to share private information about your home in public, keep your private life private.
Everyone craves a beautiful home but they ruin it with the wrong moves, use the right ingredients and experience a beautiful marriage.