I have landed in the friendzone so many times because I’m a cool guy. Now I understand these girls more and I have successfully moved out of the many friendzones. For most guys, getting out of the friend zone usually means that you had a chance at the beginning, but you blew it. You did something
I have landed in the friendzone so many times because I’m a cool guy. Now I understand these girls more and I have successfully moved out of the many friendzones. For most guys, getting out of the friend zone usually means that you had a chance at the beginning, but you blew it. You did something wrong and ended up in the dreaded friend zone. Well here are tips on how to get out of a Nigerian girl friendzone.
1. Be A Boyfriend Material: Obviously you are her friend, but you need to step up and perform some real time boyfriend duties. This is even easy because as you’ve been her friend, you know what she likes and what she hates. If you bought her a gift only on her birthday or Christmas, you need to step up from that as well. Randomly get her gifts as often as possible.
2. Play The Friend Game: In as much as they try to deny it, girls and their girlfriends have an opinion in any relationship. So use that to your advantage, flirt with her friends occasionally, invite them over for a movie or even take them out on a casual date, but be cautious not to spend for no reason because Nigerian girls like to misuse opportunities. The advantage here is that the day your name comes up as a potential guy, believe me they will all endorse you.
3. Improve Yourself: Most times why guys end up on the friendzone is that the girl has thought about it and she just can’t picture you as her boyfriend, probably because of how you dress, walk or talk. You need to step up a lil bit. The truth is as you are in the friendzone She will unknowingly be dropping tips for you or you can just casually ask her who her kinda guy is, with that info, you can improve yourself.
4. Talk About It: You know how she wants to be treated so talk about that but in this case talk about how you will treat your girlfriend. Let it be exactly how she wants to be treated, like you know women are moved by what they hear. Make sure you pass this message as clear as possible, sometime be graphical; for example, how you will chill out at the beach building sand castles.
Also note, you might be friendzoned because she just got out of a bad relationship. Give her sometime to heal, no matter how hard you try, with the pains of her previous relationship she will hardly notice your efforts!
Go ahead and break free from the friendzone!