The last thing anybody wants to do is hang around a boring person, there’s really nothing to look forward to because all they ever want to do is stay silent and wait for you to probably bring something up and if you don’t, they are fine with keeping to themselves in the best way possible
The last thing anybody wants to do is hang around a boring person, there’s really nothing to look forward to because all they ever want to do is stay silent and wait for you to probably bring something up and if you don’t, they are fine with keeping to themselves in the best way possible and that’s having a thousand things going on in their heads but still choosing to say nothing.
Different people have their own definition of “boring”, it could be based on expectations sometimes but generally, a boring person is that one odd guy or girl that would noticeably keep mute no matter the conversation, as long as no one’s dragging them into it.
These 5 things surely make you come across as boring
Always Saying Yes
What’s the fun in giving one word answers and always agreeing to whatever position someone brings at you, if you are not objective certain things and making your stand known, then you aren’t processing things enough or you are just not confident enough to express your opinion. Giving one-word answers on the other hand is considered as really boring because obviously, you are not taking the conversation anywhere with that, it’s like ending something that’s meant to be a fun, long conversation.
We were all certain kinds of people at different points in our lives, change was what happened to us all and we’ve assumed different faces and interests, change is never an enemy, it’s the one constant thing that either makes us or breaks us going forward. If you don’t like the situation of your social life, the wise thing to do is embrace that change that says “hang out more or start speaking up”
Not Doing Anything For Fun
Life is 50%work and 50% play, you honestly should have things you do for fun, you can’t be stiff as a human being, working or being serious with work and life as long as you live, if you do not have things you do for fun either by yourself or engaging with other fun-loving people, then you are one boring person.
Not Willing To Explore
So you do not do cool things for fun and you are not even willing to explore and have a hang of new things, places and experiences? that’s totally unimpressive bruh. Life is just too many things, you won’t actually be living if you aren’t having adventures and exploring, your being boring wasn’t an intentional thing, you got there somehow and you can drive your way out of it somehow.
Not Starting And Holding Conversations
The best way to have things to talk about is to even know things to talk about in the first place, there’s so much that goes on in the world that two or more people can have fun talking about without any boring moments, step up your knowledge game if it’s not already up, know what’s going on around you and even beyond, have things to talk about by being current with happenings and social topics.
Being outgoing is a really helpful thing, not just for the person(s) you are dealing with, but for yourself, your social life and even happiness.